It can happen for you too and yes quicker than waiting 30 years, having to get married and have children with somebody else.
Here are some things you should do to begin attracting your boyfriend back into your life.
1. Stop worrying about what he is doing or who he is with.
The more time you spend worrying and watching him. The more you are pushing him away from you. Turn off Facebook, MSN etc. It's no good stalking him!
2. Mend the relationship.
If you broke up for a reason. Fix the reason or reasons too, otherwise it will come charging back in your new relationship with your ex and still have problems.
3. Letting go of old men.
Get over your own negative emotions you have towards, your boyfriend, father and any significant males you have had in your life. These all contribute to your relationship success and failures.
Although you may have broken up with your ex. It will be more than likely because he trigger an old male figure wound inside of you.
The quickest and fastest I know to let go of your old negative emotionsis with Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).
4. Work out what you really want in a relationship.
When you do this and go for it. Your new relationship with your ex can have all the good stuff from your old relationship and the opposite of what you didn't like before you broke up. It's a win-win situation for you all.